Patriot Lacrosse offers lacrosse camps, clinics, elite teams, box lacross, summer lacrosse leagues, youth winter leagues, and many more opportunities to take your game to the next level whether you are a beginner or advanced athlete. With coaches from the

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Coach Ruebling sparked his love for the game in middle school being a part of the first Delbarton lacrosse team in 1975. He then went onto Cornell University where he continued to grow his passion for the sport. Upon graduation, Ruebling returned to his Alma Mater to join the lacrosse and teaching staff. This was just the beginning of becoming one of the most respected and decorated coaches in New Jersey. Coach Ruebling has led Delbarton to win 16 Morris County Championships and 15 State Championships, and 6 NJ Tournament of Champions Championships. Ruebling has been inducted into the NJISAA and NJ Lacrosse Hall of Fame and is a 10x National Lacrosse Convention guest speaker. Last year, Coach Ruebling added World Champion to his resume by helping lead the U19 Team USA win the gold. 


Patriot Director * Head Coach Delbarton School * Team USA U19

What is your lacrosse playing experience? (Old to New)

 Delbarton School

 Upstate New York Lacrosse Club

What is your coaching experience? (old to New)

 Delbarton School - 3 years assistant coach

                            31 years head coach

What honors or accolades have you received as a player and/or coach?

New Jersey Tournament of Champions in 2005, 2006, 2007, 2014, 2016, 2017

New Jersey State Championships in 1999, 2000, 2002, 2003, 2004, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2008, 2009, 2011, 2012, 2012, 2014, 2016, 2017

Morris County titles in 1992, 1994, 1997, 1998, 1999, 2001, 2004, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2011, 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016, 2017

Fitch Division titles (1992-1994)

Gibbs Division titles (1995, 2001)

1999 Coach of the Year by the NJ Lacrosse Coaches Association

Daily Record Coach of the Year in 1987 and 1997

Star-Ledger Coach of the Year in 1994

South team coach North/South National Lacrosse Classic in 1993

NJLacrosse Officials Association Len Roland Sportsmanship Award in 1998.

 2001  New Jersey Lacrosse Hall of Fame

President of the New Jersey Coaches Association from 1987 through 1994

trustee of NJ Lacrosse since 1996

Chaired the New Jersey Lacrosse Coaches Clinic for several years

Chair of the Garden State Challenge Games

2004 Ruebling was a guest speaker at the National Lacrosse Convention

2004 first ever 3 peat NJ State Championship as well as Winner of

Tournament of Champions.

2005 US Lacrosse coaching clinic speaker in Vermont

2005 inducted into the NJSIAA Hall of Fame

2005 unprecedented 4th Consecutive State Title.

2006 National Lacrosse Convention speaker

2006 Winning 7 of the last 8 NJSIAA championships and earning top national


2007 Coach of Year by the NJ Coaches Association

2007 Selector for the U19 USA team

2008 National Lacrosse Convention speaker

2008 Frank McGuire Association, Pressler Award

2008 U19 East Coast All Star Team Head Coach

2009 National Lacrosse Convention speaker

2010 National Lacrosse Convention speaker

2011 National Lacrosse Convention speaker

2011 Morris County Championship earns Coach Ruebling 400 Wins Record

2011 New Jersey Non Public A State Championship Title

2011 U19 USA team selector

2015 USA U19 National Team Coach

Coach Ruebling named one of the most influential people in NJ Sports #9. Check out this article

Under the guidance of our founder, Coach Chuck Ruebling, we have assembled the best coaching staff and teachers of the game. 

  •  John Naslonski-Head Coach Randolph HS, Rutgers University All American, Captain
  •  Craig Fleishman
  •  Derek Ruebling
  •  Neil Murphy
  •  Jesse Kolodin 
  •  Mike Smith
  •  Kevin Simmons
  •  Mike Formichella
  •  Anthony OHara
  •  Kyle Kermick
  •  Ryan Mangold
  •  Daniel Miggins
  •  John Lade
  •  Kevin Meany
  •  Mike Dunne
  •  Elliot Grover